The Root of Bitterness
Got this from a weekly devotional from my church. This still is an issue for me as I have not forgiven those in the church who've hurt me. Showing grace is much easier said than done. Just when I think that I've forgiven certain people, I have to constantly and daily forgive them. It's really been affecting me in my new church as I don't want to be hurt again, so therefore I'm withdrawing and not socializing. Please pray for me.
"See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many." - Hebrews 12:15
"The enemy of our souls has a very specific strategy to destroy relationships. Whether these relationships are in business, marriage, or friendships, the strategy is the same. A conflict arises, judgments are made, and feelings are hurt. What happens next is the defining point of whether the enemy gains a foothold, or the grace of God covers the wrong. When a root of bitterness is allowed to be planted and grown, it not only affects that person, but it also affects all others who are involved. It is like a cancer. Breaking satan's foothold requires at least one person to press into God's grace. It cannot happen when either party "feels" like it, for none of us will ever feel like forgiving. None of us feel like talking when we have been hurt. Our natural response is to withdraw or lash out at the offending party. It is only obedience that allows God's grace to cover the wrongs incurred. This grace prevents the parties from becoming victims who will seek compensation for their pain. The next time you are hurt by someone, realize the gravity of the crossroads where you find yourself. Choose grace instead of bitterness. Then you will be free to move past the hurt, and a root of bitterness will not be given opportunity to grow." By Os Hillman
posted by Beannie's Log | 3:27 PM
4 Comments:
uy. easier said than done, right? i struggle with the same stuff when it comes to past hurts and wrongs- it affects me in the most surprising and ugly ways. thank God for His grace that covers ALL our sins.
It is so hard to forgive especially those that are the closest to us. I know I struggle with forgiveness alot. It is not an easy thing. I have to remind myself that I am the worst sinner and continue to sin yet God has forgiven me through his grace, love and son, Jesus.
Thank you for the reminder of forgiveness and grace. It is so hard to forgive and bitterness is like a cancer. It is a struggle and I know exactly where you are coming from. Hope that you can slowly let your guard down and build meaningful relationships. You are a great person to know and you should let others share in you. :)
It is not easy to completely let go and forgive. I'm sure God will guide you through as you continuously pray and ask for his help. and yes...I am now in VA. It is very hectic trying to adjust. But it's fun...so far. Hope you, Dan and Nathan are doing well.
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